That night, I cried myself to sleep again. There was really
nothing I could do anymore. My heart resigned to the fact that they would not
be reconciled again, ever. It was terribly frustrating. The next morning, I
woke up thinking about the good old days. I hate my mind sometimes for not
shutting down when I wanted to forget everything. I still remembered vividly
the days when my younger sister and I were carried by our dad’s strong arms and
my mom would jokingly wanted to be carried too. We often went picnicking and as
we scampered around under his watchful eyes, my own eyes would catch hold of
tender hugs and kisses of the two lovebirds. I felt such peace and security
when my parents did that. It was a little like heaven on earth.
Those days were gone. Why people could love each other so
much previously and then turned so nasty a little later on? It was bewildering
and overwhelming. I felt helpless and distressed. As I prayed for them, I was
brought to remembrance how I was a successful mediator between few disputing friends
in different times and situations. Could I do the same with my parents? Yes,
there was a mention of the dreaded ‘D’ word but if I give up, it might become a
reality. That to me would be disastrous!
“Wake up, dear! Time for school,” my mom called in her usual
sweet voice. I called her, “the master chef” as she could cook delicious meals
throughout the day, deserts, appetizer you named it. When I greeted her that day,
it was not her usual cheery self anymore. That sad look on her face broke my
heart to thousand pieces. That day, it did something inside me. I was fired up
to be a mediator, by ‘hook or by crook’. It would be my greatest task, the most
challenging and emotional one thus far, I thought to myself.
“Hi, dad!” I spoke as he opened the door for me. He was
staying in his friend’s house. Although separated from my mom just few weeks
ago, he looked distraught and messy. “How is your sister?” he asked sadly. I knew he would bring
up this topic of his favourite daughter. “She is not good, dad. Her grades are
down and I heard crying from inside her room,” I told him the truth, the whole
truth. “I am so sorry, June. I know it would affect both of you but..,” I saw
drops of tears from his eyes. We hugged and cried together.
“I know this is between you and mom but just tell me what
can I do, anything, so that both of you could come back together?” I asked
softly but firmly. In my heart, I was
willing even to die to see them reconciled. “I know even though you can talk it
over with mom, it would not be back to good days straight away, no matter how I
wished,” I quickly added before he could give his excuses.
“It is not that easy, June. Can your mom accept the person I
have become? Yes, I know I was not like before but she has to come to term with
who I am,” he blurted.
“But will you accept her as she is the same you wanted her
to accept you?” I chipped. “Can both of you let God do the changing?”
“I don’t know. We are just not compatible anymore,” my dad
raised his voice in frustration, sounded confused. “Dad, it is not about
compatibility but about taking the lead to make things right. “Can you do it for me, for Sue?” I pleaded.
An unexpected silence ensued. Although his ego refused to let him nod his head,
I could see his heart was willing to give it a try.
"I don’t know how now, after I had said some nasty things to her,” my
dad surprised me with those words.
“Dad, I stayed with mom and I know for a fact she is
devastated with what had happened! Give it a good try,” I pressed. From the bag that I brought, I took out some
freshly baked cookies, taken (or stolen) from mom for my dad. “Dad, I have to
go now. These are for you,” I said and hugged him again.
I was awakened by someone rushing into my room. “Sue, can’t
you have the courtesy to knock first? What happened? Tell me?” I demanded.
“June! June! Come out to the hall and see for yourself!” my lovely sister said
and roughly held my hands to lead me out.
What I saw that day I would not forget for the rest of my
life! They were hugging so tight no ants could even pass through! I knelt down
and cried! Both of them knelt with me and together with Sue, we
‘entangle’ ourselves, promised never to disentangle again!
My dad brought me to see a ‘Man’ that everyone thought was
the Messiah promised long ago. He would be like the Saviour of mankind. We went
there early just like our usual picnic days! I was happy beyond measure! A
large crowd was there already when we arrived. I saw the Person my dad brought
me to see and hear. I felt the presence of God so real when he stood up to
speak.
He taught, "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs
is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be
comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are
those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed
are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart,
for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called
sons of God.” Jesus the Christ paused.
I felt two pair of gentle hands on my back. Turning around, I
found out it was my parents’ hands and they were in tears! “He is speaking of
you,” my dad whispered! And when I looked again at Jesus, I saw he was looking
at me and smiled. Those were the best days of my life!
How many people in the world today desire peace! Most if not
all! Countless people are peace lovers but sadly not many dare to be peacemakers.
In the beatitude, Jesus taught the connection between peacemakers with sons (or
daughters) of God. If you profess to be
a child of God, you are called to be peacemakers! The message is plain and
clear.
There is a difference between worldly peacemakers and a
Christian one. Yes, we must stand for peace and we must also try our best to
make peace with two disputing parties. Yet, our call is of a higher nature! We
are called to help reconcile the lost to God. We reach out to those whose lives
are empty without God and are anxious without assurance of the love of God. This peace that God gives the world will never understand until they are made
right with God.
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give
to you as the world gives (John 14:27).
Oh, the joy and satisfaction of seeing wrecked lives
reconcile with the peace of God! But greater joy would be the one who ignites and
starts that process of reconciliation!
All
this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the
ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in
Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the
message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God
were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be
reconciled to God (2 Cor 5:18-20).
Next: Blessed are those who are persecuted because of
righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven (Mat 5:10).
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